I am fascinated by the power of listening. As coaches, this is one of the main avenues, if not THE main avenue, to the unlocking and drawing forth of that which is deeply inside each client. 

A Bible reading I read today mirrored for me what we, as coaches, have the great honor to do as we encounter and deeply draw forth the still waters as we meet with each client:

In 1 Kings 19, Elijah has been led for 40 days and nights, by God, to a cave.

Prior to this long journey, Elijah had been in the midst of a traumatic set of circumstances.  His life was threatened and he was fleeing.  He left his servant and walked a day's journey straight into the desert. 

He found a single tree and sat under it, praying for death.  Exhausted, tired and hungry, he fell asleep. 

He was awoken by an angel, coaxing him to eat and drink what was provided for him in the desert-a hearth cake and a jug of water. 

He ate and drank some and then lay back down, but the angel of the Lord touched him, and, this time, ordered him to eat and drink. 

For the angel knew that he had a journey ahead of him and that he needed this provision so that he would have the strength to make the journey.  

This is just the dramatic background story! 

Don't our lives, just like Elijah's, have an equally dramatic backdrop? 

We have each found ourselves, at different points in our lives, hungry for more, exhausted from our travel, possibly discouraged and asleep in the desert.  And, inevitably, the Lord nudges us and encourages.....or demands....that we eat the food in front of us that will sustain us for the next stretch of our journey. 

Getting back to the story of Elijah.....he has eaten the food, gotten up and followed God for 40 days and nights to a cave.....when he arrives in the cave, God asked him, "Why are you here?"

Elijah starts to explain his whole, lengthy history of dramatic events that led him where he is. 

The Lord then instructs him to go outside the cave, on the mountain of the Lord and watch, for He will be passing by. 

Elijah sees and hears a heavy wind crushing rocks, but the Lord was not in this.  He  then witnesses a mighty earthquake, but the Lord was not in this.  After the earthquake, a fire, but the Lord was not in this. 

After the fire, there was a tiny whispering sound…When Elijah heard this, he knew that this was the Lord.

…a tiny whispering sound…

This is what we, as coaches, have the privilege to listen for and draw out...those tiny, whispering sounds of the Lord in our clients. 

There are heavy winds crushing rocks, mighty earthquakes, fires, but the whispering sound of the Spirit's voice in the lives of our clients is what we are waiting for.  

Elijah immediately hears the tiny whispering sound and gains great clarity from the Lord about his next call and next steps.  He directly sets out, after hearing and recognizing the tiny whispering sound of God's voice, to encounter Elisha and lay his cloak upon him symbolizing God's commissioning of Elisha. 

Where do I stop in this passage?  It goes on and on and …

…God's plan falls like dominoes…

The first domino drops when Elijah recognizes the tiny whispering sound of God's voice...."a gentle breeze" as the Greek reads.

As coaches, we are called to deeply listen, with a sharpened, skilled and refined ear for thegentle breeze

We may hear the traumatic description of the crushing winds, the earthquake, the fire, and we watch and wait as the gentle breeze comes forth. 

The gentle breeze that manifests itself,  revealing the path forward for each client.

Do you ever have those moments in life when you know God is speaking to you?  That he is communicating something to you and you just need to stop and listen?  I have......let me recount one moment to you.

Yesterday morning while visiting with one of my children before school, my child told me about a dream that they had the night before.  It was a short and simple dream,

…but, it left me thinking all day yesterday and into today....

“Dad, last night I had a dream that I was on a bus.  In the front of the bus was the bus driver. The bus was very long and had two sections.  At the head of the second section of the bus was another person with a steering wheel.  The bus driver up front was doing a good job, but then the person in the second part of the bus started steering as well, but wasn't able to see.  The bus began losing control and was going to crash and then I woke up.”

It was a short and simple dream but it left me thinking all day and into today about my life and many of our lives.  God is the Bus driver and He is doing a good job. He has as a good handle on the bus and then…… 

...If you are like me, I often fail to trust God and I try to take control myself.

I start to decide which turns will be taken and at what speed.  I, the driver with the most hindered view, start to make decisions on the best routes, the best destinations....that is, until God pulls a "Drivers Ed Teacher" move and, with strength that only He has, takes back the wheel....

" Trust in the Lord with all your heart, on your own intelligence do not rely; In all your ways be mindful of him, and He will make straight your paths."

Proverbs 3: 5-6, NAB

It left me pondering these few questions for myself.  I offer them to you to reflect on as well.

Do I trust God to steer the direction of my life?  

How do I grow in trust?

What would my life look like if I let go of the steering wheel and let God drive?

I pray the Lord Jesus blesses you with this short reflection like he did me.  Here are a few ideas for further action.  Write down a few responses to the questions.  Take them to prayer, ask the Lord to show you how to trust and to increase your trust, He will!  Share the reflection with a spouse, friend or small group and have a conversation about it.  Think of one thing you can do every day or week to better trust and put it into place in your life.

P.S.  I think it's ok to go up near the front of the bus and be near God and converse with him about travel plans.


Coach Rick on the Son Rise Morning Show with Ryan Lopez: Living From Your Identity in Christ.

Who am I? Who is God? Do I know who I am? Do I know who God is? 

These are the questions we must first ask in order to start living from our identity in Christ. Just think about it, how can one move forward without knowing where they are to begin with?

There are so many great places in Scripture to find these answers and to learn more about our identity in Christ. The gospel of Matthew, this story in chapter 16 gives us a deeper insight to our identity: 

"When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.”

“But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” 

Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.”
Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven; whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”  Then he ordered his disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.

But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” ... Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it."

Peter knew who Jesus was and he declared it. Only after he proclaimed this truth did Jesus then tell Peter who he was. Here Peter receives his identity in Christ. 

Again we must ask ourselves - do I know who God is? 

And then we must ask Him - Lord, who do you say that I am? 

Lord, who do you say that I am? "Listen to the full show and learn more about what coaching is and some obstacles you might face while seeking to live from your identity in Christ. 

Coach Rick on the Son Rise Morning Show with Ryan Lopez: Living From Your Identity in Christ.

Coach Rick on the Son Rise Morning Show with Ryan Lopez: Living a Dynamic Catholic Family Life.

What does it mean to live out  God’s purposes? In the very beginning of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, it states that God created man to seek Him, to know Him, and to love Him with all of his strength. This is God's desire for us. Our purpose flows from Him - our Creator. Each person was created by Him to uniquely reflect His glory and presence in the world!

Each person was created by Him to uniquely reflect His glory and presence in the world!"

So how do we do this? 
Take a STEP! STEP is a process which helps us to step into God's purposes for our lives. 

Through digging deeper into this framework with prayer and reflection, we gain greater understanding and knowledge of ourselves which leads us to better live out God's unique purpose for our lives and reflect His light the way that He created us to. 

Do you desire to live out God's purpose for your life? Contact Coach Rick to receive a worksheet and gain more insight on living out God's purpose for your life! 

Listen to the full show on knowing and living out God's purposes! 

Coach Rick on the Son Rise Morning Show with Ryan Lopez: Living a Dynamic Catholic Family Life.

Well - it is here - the new year has begun! Pour the champagne, and insert your best happy dance! I don’t know about you, but I have always loved the start of a new year, even as a kid. There was always something fun and exciting - almost magical - about ringing in the new year. Maybe it was hope.

With its coming the new year brings a new beginning - a wrapping up of the things of the past and the expectant anticipation of good things to come. There is new potential and the possibilities are endless, like an open road at the start of a new journey.

In one way or another, this past year all of us experienced something like we never had before. Maybe your past year was exceptionally hard, maybe it was surprisingly great, but my question for you is this: As you begin this new year, where do you want your journey to lead you?

Just as when planning for a trip, you prepare for it and have a specific destination in mind, so too can you prepare for and have a specific destination in mind for this next year. To begin well we start with the end in mind.

First of all - what is your final destination? Where do you want to be at the end of this new year? What areas of your life do you want to have fostered? As Gandalf said in the great classic, The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien, “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

Don’t be afraid to name your hopes and dreams for the year. God is inviting you to dream with Him, to place your trust in His goodness over your life - and to step out in hope and faith. Will there be detours? Probably. Will there be roadblocks? Most likely. Will God be with you every step of the way to give you strength for the journey? Absolutely. Our God is a faithful God who does not abandon us.


“...They that hope in the LORD will renew their strength, they will soar on eagles’ wings; they will run and not grow weary, walk and not grow faint.”

Isaiah 40:31

As you cheers to the new year and begin a new adventure, enjoy the journey, for, even in the detours, it is beautiful. Even in the roadblocks, it is good. And - be bold - knowing that your Heavenly Father is with you. Be bold in your commitment to growth. Be persistent in your striving for virtue. Be courageous in your choosing to hope in God’s Providence for the journey.

“For I know well the plans I have in mind for you—oracle of the LORD—plans for your welfare and not for woe, so as to give you a future of hope.”

Jeremiah 29:11

What are you grateful for this year? There’s no doubt that this year has been a very different year for all of us in one way or another. This year has brought heartache, frustration, and disappointment for many. Yet, even still - God’s loving presence is never changing! I am so grateful that, in this year of unsteadiness, God has been the steady. In the midst of it all, He has still been pouring out His blessings! He has still been working in the hearts of His people, inviting each of us to receive the love and hope that only comes from Him. Thank you Jesus for your goodness even now!

Nothing - nothing - can separate us from the love that God has for us! In the Scriptures St. Paul writes, 

For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Romans 8:38-39

What are the ways that God has loved you this year? Take some time this Thanksgiving to intentionally foster an attitude of gratitude and remember the ways in which God has worked by reflecting on the following questions:

After you’ve reflected on the ways that God has loved you, offer Him praise and thanks for the many blessings that He has given. Thank God for all of His past, present, (and future!) blessings. Also, if there are specific people who have blessed you this year - make it a point to reach out and thank them so you can share and spread the blessing.
​Let’s be intentional about cultivating an attitude of gratitude!

Give thanks to the Lord for He is good, His mercy endures forever!”

Psalm 107:1

​Fall - it’s the season of backyard football, bonfires, and harvest festivals. It’s the season of new beginnings as the rays of summer slowly dim and a crisp new time is ushered in.

New beginnings can sometimes bring with it anxious anticipation, but also joy-filled excitement and wonder. As you enter into this new season of fall, it is a natural time to reflect on your life and authentically look at where you are at and where you desire to be - and where God desires you to be. It’s a time to take inventory of your life.


As you enter into this new season of fall, it is a natural time to reflect on your life and authentically look at where you are at and where you desire to be - and where God desires you to be."

To do this, set aside some intentional time; make it fun and enjoy the process! You’ll need a pen and some paper (a journal works great), and, if you’re a fan of all things pumpkin spice, a mug of your favorite cup of joe - or apple cider works too.  

To begin, say a pray to the Holy Spirit inviting Him into your heart and asking Him to guide this time. Then, ask yourself the following questions, taking time to think about and journal through each one:

To begin, say a pray to the Holy Spirit inviting Him into your heart and asking Him to guide this time. "

REVIVE

RENEW

RESTORE

After you’ve journaled through the questions, read back over what you've written and see what stands out to you.
Commit this new season to the Lord and know that He has good things in-store!

“Let us not grow tired of doing good, for in due time we shall reap our harvest, if we do not give up.” - Galations 6:9

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